Here’s the thing: Online dating is supposed to help people who aren’t necessarily the outgoing type, or those who can’t spend much time going out to bars, hobby clubs and the like. It’s supposed to be a place where you can look up like-minded people, and chat with them about things you have in common to decide if you want to meet up.
What they DON’T tell you beforehand, is exactly how soul-destroying and energy-sapping the whole affair is. Okay, granted, I’m extrapolating data based on my own experience, but from what I gather mine is a relatively common experience. One where you try and get into the spirit of things, to actively look for ladies with similar personalities and interests and send them messages that do their best to engage them in conversation on common ground.
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